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Earlier this week, Jewish people all over the world celebrated Passover. Putting religion aside, I think this holiday helped me bring my college life into perspective – and I think it could help you, too.

In more conservative households, Passover is prepared for by removing all chametz (leavened bread) from the house. This must be done so meticulously that the whole house is cleaned in the process. It may not seem like it now, but spring is right around the corner, and with it comes spring cleaning.

It may sound like just another chore, but the purging of clutter is a cathartic experience. It’s a great opportunity to start the second half of the semester with a clean house and a clean mind.

Passover is also a time for remembrance and reflection. We are right in the middle of the semester, so it may seem like an awkward time to reflect, but for those of us who are graduating this is a good opportunity to sit down and think about where we are in our lives.

We have been racing to the diploma finish line with our blinders on, but many people say that their college years were the best of their life. Now is a good time to sit down and really appreciate how precious these last few months of undergraduate study are. Our lives are free, flexible and full of potential.

For me personally, reflecting on Passover provided an opportunity to take a break from thinking about my own life and my own problems and recognize the struggle of others, not only people who are currently being oppressed, but all of those who fought to make our lives what they are today. From my great-great grandparents who immigrated to this country and started their lives from scratch, to the feminists who worked for my right to vote – I am grateful.

Whether it is Thanksgiving or just another lazy Sunday afternoon, one thing is for sure – anytime is a good time to refresh our perspective.

 
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It’s funny to think that people our age are still afraid to stand up for others. But you know what isn’t funny? Seth MacFarlane at the Oscars.

It was uncomfortable to watch as he alternated between the racy and the just plain dumb. He delivered joke after sophomoric joke about women’s looks, especially with the song, “We Saw Your Boobs,” which has led many critics to dub his act as sexist, even misogynistic.

To be clear, there are times and places for tawdry or crude jokes, but the Oscars are not it. You’d think someone would’ve mentioned that black-tie events call for more understated humor, or even that it’s a bad idea to objectify half the audience.

I think there is a deeper issue here, and it doesn’t have anything to do with MacFarlane. It has to do with the misuse of humor. I feel genuinely sorry for people who have so little creativity, self-esteem or dignity that they can’t operate in conversation except to make crude comments and talk crap on other people. Humor is a tool that should be used for good, not for stupidity.

When humor crosses the line into bullying, it’s morally clear that we should stand up for the victim, but what can we do about those random, stupid comments? After all, we have no influence over the scripts of television shows, and free will is probably going to be around for a while. But we can have an impact at Emporia State and in our everyday lives.

I suggest that we, the people who know when jokes are inappropriate, voice our disapproval by not saying anything at all. Don’t agree with or encourage them by laughing. Silently protest the idiocy.

Once we have raised our expectations for ourselves and our peers, I think we will all find greater satisfaction in laughing with each other, rather than laughing at each other.

 
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Weiss

I was totally impressed by last Friday’s Sesquicentennial Gala. I was glad to see Emporia State’s administration, faculty, community, students and alumni rally to raise scholarship funds – not to mention that in a town where one of the fanciest restaurants is Applebee’s, having a black-tie event was quite exciting.

I didn’t have to pay to get in because I had art on display, but after that experience I would gladly shell out $75 for the next gala. For those of you interested in dropping some cash on a fun and uplifting experience – if the opportunity should arise again – here’s what you would have to look forward to: a classy atmosphere; an excuse to dress up; performances and exhibitions by ESU students; socializing with grown-ups and lots and lots of finger food and free drinks.

I know an event like this doesn’t quite fit into a college student’s budget, but, like

cookies, galas are a “sometimes snack.” It’s something to budget for and get excited about.

It also seems much more worth it when you stop thinking about it as paying almost $100 to eat hors d’oeuvres, wax your handlebar moustache and wear a monocle. Rather, you are donating to a good cause, socializing with the people who organize and care about ESU and eating food you wouldn’t have a chance to sample ordinarily.

While there, I spoke with President Michael Shonrock. He told me that the gala

is the direction that ESU is heading and asked if I liked it. I said yes, and I meant it. I’m almost sad to graduate in May. I’m excited for ESU’s future, but I fear that once I move away, I’m going to lose touch with this place.

Even if I can’t find a way to take a day or two out of the year to check in, I do hope that my collegiate posterity will find ways to stay excited and connected with our university, whether or not it means spending money. As we said many-a-time at the gala, stingers up!

 
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An Emporia man was recently charged with stalking 21 women. While this may seem like a snicker-worthy thing for many people our age, the fact of the matter is that stalking is a very scary, often traumatic experience for the victim(s). What better time to have a discussion about this than January – National Stalking Awareness Month.

I think we’ve been trained to assume stalking is reserved for celebrities and the creepy people who idolize them. Stars who live in California and eccentrics that follow their every move may seem like distant problems, but stalking can happen anytime and anywhere.

We also tend to use the word “stalking” wantonly, especially when we call Facebook “Stalkerbook” and such. But jealously searching through others’ superficial information pages for hours is not criminal activity – it’s just pitiful.

And while some may argue that stalking does not lead to anyone being physically harmed, which is not always true, the criminal does steal something from the victim – their sense of security. Feeling safe is priceless, and to have it taken away for no good reason is entirely unfair.

It is also understandable why someone might not be sure if they are being stalked or not. After all, how are you supposed to recognize something if you’ve never experienced it before?

I would guess, however, that the feeling of having one’s privacy invaded is innate. It should be understood that we have a right to a certain amount of privacy from the government – and from each other. If or when we get that gut feeling, no one should feel shame in seeking help and standing up for themselves.

There is a definite lesson to learn here: be protective of your personal information. It is personal, after all.

For example, there are certain features on Facebook that are just plain unnecessary, like the “places” application. No one needs a record of where their “friends” are or have gone, unless they are specifically trying to find ways to feel left out.

In my unprofessional, but common-sense opinion, if we use preventative measures, stay educated and stand up for ourselves, we can work as a team to keep stalking from furthering itself as a problem in our community.

 
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Weiss

Last semester, I wrote an article called “Holds and Headaches.” In it, I mentioned some concerns that another student and I had about some confusing holds we had on our student accounts. As it goes with many articles, I didn’t expect much to happen.

But this time, it was different.

When I arrived back in Emporia and checked my mail – that is, my real mail – I found a very interesting letter. President Michael Shonrock read my article and wanted to inform me of the changes that were made in response. Specifically, students will now have the ability to enroll in classes even if they have a balance on their account, given that the balance is less than $100.

I was so happy with Shonrock’s response. It was not only effective, but also very quick. The whole situation was impressive, and I was really excited to have done something useful – something that sparked change. It’s change like this that makes this job seem not only worthwhile, but important.

I think it’s easy for people our age to feel impotent, to feel like our actions won’t have any effect on the world, or even our immediate environment. We send our hours of work – homework, essays and projects – into black holes. But opportunities for improvements are everywhere, and all kinds of things that hinder happiness are readily changeable.

I want to encourage anyone reading this to take a proactive approach to their problems. Don’t be afraid to speak up. Use The Bulletin as a tool if you can. It could truly be “the student’s voice” if more people used it as a means to share their opinions. All it takes is a letter sent to opinion@esubulletin.com.

Don’t be afraid to apply these principles beyond school. Communication between coworkers, friends and employers/employees is vital. The majority of the year is still ahead of us, so let’s make 2013 an honest and communicative time for us all.

P.S. Thank you, President Shonrock. That was truly encouraging.

 

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I have to say, I really enjoy attending Emporia State. I pay tuition and fees, and they leave me alone for the rest of the semester. I like that.

But every once in a blue moon, ESU will pull something that is totally unreasonable. The following is a tale of the unreasonable:

A little over a month ago, I overheard a coworker dealing with the frustration of a hold that had been put on her student account. When I asked her about it, she said she had an outstanding balance that she hadn’t paid. Apparently, she wasn’t aware of the balance at all, and wasn’t going to be allowed to enroll in classes until it had been rectified.

I understood her frustration, but I was unable to relate. I – the infallible Ellen – would never have a hold on my account because I am just too dang diligent about paying my balances…or so I thought.

Just a week later, I had to go to the Student Wellness Center. They took my insurance information and told me it would be billed to my account. After guessing and checking for a few days to see if it appeared, I paid the $12 I was charged as soon as I saw it. No big deal.

A fortnight passed, and I was rushing to apply to a conference with limited spaces. I went to print out my unofficial transcript and BAM! – a hold was put on my account for an outstanding $5 “Student Wellness” fee that I had no idea was there.

I rushed to pay it online, but, apparently, there is a two week wait to clear virtual checks. (Insert some expletives here) Then, I had to rush to the cashier’s office to pay again with cash.

Needless to say, it was an unnecessary pain in the neck. In response to these events, I have written the following letter:

Dear Emporia State,

Please email me updates about my account balance.

Sincerely,

Ellen

A simple correction like this is a win-win situation. So, if you know someone who has a hand in the cashiering or emailing services, please put a good word in for me. Let’s nip these annoyances in the bud.

 

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Hark! Progress! Just when I was beginning to think that Americans were going to fight over the morality of abortion for the rest of the decade, our recent election has shown that people care about other stuff, too! Amazing! In fact, the notion was so new it was downright historic!

In case you haven’t already heard, two states, Washington and Colorado, have both voted to – in short – legalize marijuana. This is huge! But, the drug has been, and still is, outlawed by the federal government.

From the research and conversations I’ve had concerning the subject, the argument against marijuana legalization doesn’t hold much water. I’ve gathered that the ban on weed was imposed not for true fear of national health, not because it was causing any true harm to the nuclear family, but for purely political reasons. Not only that, but alcohol is a far more addictive and harmful drug than marijuana, and was only legalized again because people were going blind because they were illegally making their own.

This is also an excellent opportunity to see what will happen to a state with the “legalize it” laws. Will their prison populations shrink? Will they prosper greatly because of taxes on marijuana? Will parents and children have a new, fun and legal way to bond with each other?

Or will increasingly more Washingtonians engage in risky behaviors such as driving while intoxicated? Will there be a wave of marijuana addiction a la ‘Reefer Madness’ in Colorado?

Only time will tell.

And let us not forget about the first openly gay senator, Tammy Baldwin, and Californians agreeing that sales and income taxes should be raised – which is not a common decision in popular vote.

The coolest thing about all of this is that it shows that voting in local and state elections alike really does something. Huge decisions can be made!

So, whether you are excited for, or hating, the new legislation, remember to keep up with local politics and VOTE.

 

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The one thing neither presidential candidate is willing to discuss is gun control. Feeling safe is a priority for everyone. For many, having a firearm is how they can feel entirely secure. I have never been able to sympathize with these people…until recently.

I had my first experience with a Peeping Tom, and it was the scariest experience I’ve had in a while. After I called the police and freaked out with my roommate, I found it rather difficult to fall back asleep. For the first time, I wished I had a gun.

I don’t like the idea of guns. They kill things, and that’s reason enough for me to avoid them. But the idea of being able to buy guaranteed protection? It sounded tempting in a way it never had before.

Gun control has been a hot topic recently, and I thought I had solidified my position – ban concealed weapons wherever, whenever. Now, not so much.

My instincts say “mo’ guns, mo’ problems,” but a new thought has crossed my mind – there is no point in banning guns in most places because those who break the law are going to have their weapon despite its illegality.

No matter your position on the topic, I hope that we all can agree that the steps it takes to purchase a gun should be better regulated. You have to get a license, registration and take a test to operate a vehicle. Yet guns, which are equally as deadly as a vehicle, are given out like candy. Bad stuff.

In any case, the “New Me” has formed a to-do list, which reads as follows: 1. Go to the Gun Den and get something. Pepper spray sounds good. 2. Ask my landlords if we could put bars on the windows. 3. Figure out how to stop having nightmares about people breaking into my apartment.

Part of me wishes I didn’t have to have a terrifying experience to become more moderate on my views. If you have a chance to take the other path and have an intelligent conversation with someone, I highly recommend it.

 

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Maybe it’s the general air of confusion, maybe it’s the frustration, maybe it’s the constant complaints, but something tells me this new email transition is not going well.

I mysteriously did not receive any emails during the first week of the transition. I must not have followed the forwarding rule directions exactly as they were given – even though I did.

Then, when I went to email a couple of faculty members, I tried to find them in search engine, and it didn’t work. Are some people not in the new address book? Did I do something wrong?

No. It just turns out that faculty and staff were not switched to the new g.emporia.edu system. They’re addresses stayed the same.

But I don’t get it because many of us relied on the address book to email our professors.

This wouldn’t seem like so much of a let-down if some rather obvious precautions had been taken. First, a trial run probably could’ve helped out. I’m no computer whiz, but I don’t see why that couldn’t be possible. Second, doing it in the middle of a semester seemed like a bad idea. I’m swamped with tests, quizzes and reports – trying to figure this out is not at the top of my priority list.

Some say this is the inevitable backlash from any technological change. Check your newsfeed the next time Facebook makes a switch in style and format. The outcry can be deafening. But when the primary function of a service, in this case the exchange of email, is not just altered, but hampered by the transition, we have to pause for reflection.

Even with all of this frustration, I like Gmail. I like how I don’t need to sign in constantly. I like that we can finally mark things as spam. And I know we’ll all get accustomed to it eventually.

Even if this was a switch for the better, it wasn’t achieved in a very efficient manner. Hopefully, the next time we attempt a large-scale change, it will be with more forethought and common sense.

 

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So we all know it’s important to keep up with the news, but who has the time to read all of those way-too-long articles, or even watch the news on those cable channels we can’t afford?

Because I find it so important to stay informed, please allow me to distill a few of those articles and reports down and spew them out in 350 words or less.

First, tons of people in Egypt and Libya are pissed about a previously-obscure anti-Muslim film that was made by a hateful and untalented Californian filmmaker. Some got so mad that an American ambassador and several embassy staffers were killed. Many members of the Muslim community have since spoken out, saying that this was an overreaction, or apologizing on behalf of those who killed unnecessarily. This was a reality check for me – America is obviously not very popular.

Second, Mitt Romney is making a full-on ass of himself. He was secretly recorded making a myriad of coarse and ignorant remarks about domestic and foreign politics, and when confronted, stuck by what he said. My favorite part was when he spouted that 47 percent of Americans “will vote for the president (Obama) no matter what” because they feel “entitled” to food and housing. Good to know that he likes to mock half of the American population, his hopeful constituency. Go to hell, Mitt.

Third, the conflict in Syria isn’t over. Most of the people who were killed were civilians – a.k.a. the entire thing sucks. I find it funny that the United States feels free to swoop in and “rescue” countries when we think they have bombs, but when there is hard proof that innocent people are being killed, we decide to sit it out. In any case, I hope it ends as peacefully and as soon as possible.

As you can see, my reporting is rather biased. In the strictest sense, it’s not even reporting. It’s my take on others’ reporting. Each of you, surely, feels something about these events.

I beg of you, go and find the real stories. Discover your beliefs. They are not some random occurrence. Read about the teacher’s strike in Chicago, get the real low-down on Syria. Stay informed. Let’s take the “ignorant” out of “ignorant Americans.”